Check engine light is on…
What happens when the check engine light comes on in your car? Do you pay attention to the warning and get help? Do you check the manual? Call a mechanic? Or do you figure that if you ignore it, the car will be fine – when it stops running you’ll figure it out?
Some folks have the check engine light on in their relationships, but they don’t get help.
Those people who experience relational check engine signs, and pay attention, experience growth and transformation.
But, people who ignore relational check engine lights share their regrets for the additional damage they’ve done for continuing to operate the relationship with all the warning lights on. They share regrets for not taking necessary steps in making things right.
A question – how long can people ignore the check engine relational warning lights and think that the relationship is still repairable?
A tremendous amount of pain finds its way into a life counseling and coaching office. Some that has been tolerated or ignored for years. Some more recently recognized.
Why would we take better care of our vehicles than our relationships?
What are relational check engine signs? Let me help you recognize the signs and address them – in parenting, at work, with your spouse … in every relationship that matters.
Cheryl@HeldTogether.net